When we look at the internet and watch the mainstream news then peep at the tabloids in shops, life can become very complicated.
When we ignore all of it and focus only on what we have around us and how we can improve – life becomes very simple and easy to manage – enabling us to love those that need us in our homes and hearts.
When we stand still and feel the love in our heart – no matter where in the world it is. We have everything. Less is More. Love is the Answer. I am much happier when I am not on the internet. I do like to blog as it keeps me sane – it’s my blueprint. But I don’t need to be anywhere else. Music makes me happy that and good food, my friends and sons and all the animals. I love men too. All of them. I have Muslim friends, gay ones as well. All of them respect me as I do them. None of them imply they wish to touch or hurt me. We’re all friends. Having sons has made me humble. Men are not all bad. They shouldn’t fight one another. It is effecting the status quo of nature. And any man who bullies women is not worthy of respect. Any woman who encourages that man is filth in my eyes, women need to stand together – not drive others apart.
To bully on any level is a form of self denial – bullies require attention. They need a reaction. Ignore them. Like I always say, learn from it and get on with your life. For what is on your doorstep and in your soul is perfect and you will be happier knowing this. Perpetual competitions have no ultimate reward.
If you’re good at what you do, the right energy will find you. The like-minded help one another in ways that are beautiful – going beyond platforms such as Twitter and Facebook. They’re not real. There’s too many people pretending to be someone else on there. How can that be right? Cowards hiding behind silhouettes. Fake fan accounts and people who abuse one another in the most indirect ways. What a way to carry on … sigh.
Time for a cup of tea and a slice of malt loaf with real butter on the top. My treat for today – I shall appreciate each mouthful and sip. You can’t break a good soul. It only makes us stronger. Have a lovely week. I will be back in the autumn as I’ve lots to be getting on with. You’re welcome.
TBH.
Tiff Harper 
What a great post…from this silhouette who is the exception to the rule, I assure you 🙂 Some of us are just shy…and not malicious (okay, I may be a slight coward!! 🙂 Have a lovely Summer season!
You are a Goddess who is sharing love and good news. We can use our identity any way we wish when we come from love. But there are people spreading hate using aliases that are very different. I love you to bits and you give me great inspiration. Thank You for always dropping by and for always sharing others on your blog. That is what life is all about 🙂
Thank Goodness you see me that way, as I do you…always look forward to your posts and love your energy. I completely agree with you re: nasty folk…but luckily, they are in a minority…we outnumber them massively (I humbly proffer!). Yet, I am often ‘scared’ of the trolls myself, hence the ‘secretness’ I employ – a somewhat fun defence! Wishing you lots of good times and happy Summer days ahead…SP 🙂
Yes it is awful feeling as though we have to tread with trepidation when all we want to do is share and spread kindness. It is awful that kindness offends a minority few. But they are relentless bullies and it can be draining. So we need to sometimes slow it down. I am setting up a new blog shortly to start afresh and I will certainly let you know. So you may have a new silhouette of light alongside yourself soon. XXX
Kind silhouettes of the world unite…I look forward to your new blog!
So much love my friend. Sincerely, you are so lovely and we shall entwine soon xx
Such a wonderful read! 😙
Hey, I hope you are ok. I wish I lived in the USA. I feel so more at home with you guys over the pond. X
Wonderfull …salam dari indonesia
sending a big hug to Indonesia. Salam 🙂
Wow! Such a beautiful and positive write-up! When we look around we really feel so lucky and fortunate enough to have everything! Life gives us lessons and blessings and both are necessary for living beautiful life ☺
Have a beautiful weekend xx
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Love to you 🙂
True beauty in this post Tiffany.
Simply has to be reblogged!
All the best
Roger
Big Love to Roger muah xxx
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Be fair folks. This is what it should be all about.
Roger you are so lovely. Your last reblog a couple of your WP friends came over and said hello to me and spoke so highly of you. You are so kind and sharing. That is what it is all about. Sharing. I am addicted to reading blogs. There are so many wonderful people on here. Sending you massive hugs. x
Great advice to living well with others. Your advice to ignore bullies is dead on accurate. They need an audience. An old friend told me that we tend to give our power away to others. If we choose not to take offense, then we are not offended. If we just smile to a bully, wish them peace and walk away, that will speak volumes.
By the way, I am here because of Roger’s link. Glad I stopped by. Take care, Keith
Positive words Keith. Roger is a diamond. I was bullied for being ‘regarded’ small (a volunteer without fame) but when bigger people began to realise – the couple slowly diverted. It was a difficult few years but I didn’t give up on the animals. I send you so much light. I do believe, attention goes where energy flows. I am so awake and ready to make more of my journey. It was just so deeply spiteful. Yet through the hate my faith being ever more so stronger 🙂 Thank You Keith. Life is truly very precious and magical on so many levels.
What a simply beautiful post! Just reading it brought a smile to my face and peace to my heart! Thanks to Roger for sharing this, and thanks to you, Tiffany, for such wonderful words.
Thank you Jill. Roger is a wonderful person. He connects so many people and under estimates himself. All light workers have little esteem in these hard times. Kind words and love will bring us together and win xx
Yes, Roger is a gem … some days he keeps me sane, I think. I am glad I found your blog … mine is rather dark political commentary and it is nice to be able to visit the light side every now and then! 🙂
I love diversity. Your heart will guide you. Blogs are a great release.
Great post Tiffany,
Love is the answer.Love is the only real religion. On the other hand all religions preaches love.But if someone is believer only declaratively then he or she has no love in his heart and he/she is believer only because of others. If you want to attract love in your life, share love over the globe. I believe in God and with that I believe in people because they are God’s creatures, and I love them. I believe in animals and in nature because God created them and I love them.
Thank you 🙂
Ben! Thank you for sharing your open heart. 🙂
All we need is love 🙂