life is never fair but it can be sweet

I can’t believe I am 58 this year. I will be honest, inside I feel about 30. I suppose because I have spent the gap between then and now, being quite isolated in my targets. Where I have had many struggles to overcome, beneficial to my journey, yet hard work. As I always say, Life is a Lesson – Learn it well.’ So, I have not plodded along the age stick with the mundane, but instead have sought out music, gatherings and people I think are cool. It’s kept me young, for sure. little and often. the lighter months.

When my kids were becoming adults, I used to go out clubbing with them and also with my late Father back in the day. I would pole dance or hop on a podium. My sons would cringe. I stopped clubbing on a weekly basis when I was about 35. This is when it took a week to get over one weekend. So you’re always either out or knackered. Staying young inside is good for the soul, but it can feel really awkward when you get to meet people the same age or older, who seem like decades ahead of you. I love to wander, slow down, people watch. Drink coffee or good wine. And not feel observed. It’s a basic human right for those who do not seek the limelight. Well … I thought so?

With Belleva, it’s taught me so much about couples in particular. The younger couples do seem to have more compassion and insight and are far more progressive minded. They like their space and seem to get by with me not around, coming and going as they please. Whereas, the more mature couples don’t like the contactless check in and out (generally speaking.) Also, they prefer a place with a bar, free breakfast and somebody to always be about. To coin it, they want more attention. Plus, whilst I am waffling on, thanks for any person who said a few nice words. I know is a huge organisation that takes all the bread but still, this was nice to get. It’s been such a tough time this winter so it did give me a lift.

When I go away on a break, I don’t want any service at all. I like space and freedom. We are all different, I guess. But Belleva is more like a retreat. I can’t be waiting on people who bore the shit out of me. I prefer younger guests, I learn from them and we have much more in common. You have to keep up to date to keep moving. And the only way to do that is not to focus on the same things, day in, day out. Jazz keeps me fast in my heart space. My Dad loved jazz too.

Belleva used to be called The Nester. Well … when I took it over that was the name I chose. Because. I am a Nester. I have always made dens and my favourite way to do this is in cosy spaces. Prior to that, Belleva had always been called ‘Sovereign House’ and one of my biggest mistakes to date (I have made a few …) is not keeping the original name. I rushed in without thinking and got too creative. The neighbours could not get their heads around the pace of change when I hit number 30 on St Chads. Anyway, soon after I was contacted by a hotel chain with a similar name saying they had found ‘The Nester’ and it was an abbreviation of their hotel chain. This was due to me setting up Belleva as a PLC by the advice of my family. It was all over the web. So invasive for small businesses. And not safe for women in particular.

So I called a great company named ‘Trademark Eagle’ and got chatting with an amazing lady named Natasha, who explained that I had to choose a name nobody else had taken. I let her know I wanted to go back to Sovereign House, though, unfortunately that was also registered by another business. I had a blog named Belleva which was an anagram of Believer and being a spiritual being, we eventually did a trademark search on the name. By now, we had gone through so many ideas. Low and behold, Belleva came up. And since there was already a hotel owned by a mate of mine, named Belvere on the street we accentuated Belleva to BellEva as to avoid muddlements. It’s caused all kinds of problems, but I got there in the end and had to change the sign and branding quite quickly. Then came the strap line Home. Heart. Hotel. Because that’s what the place was to me. And that’s how I wanted it to feel for my guests.

I have spent the last few months doing up a little garden in Lytham and designing a family project. As you may have read from previous blogs, it has been such a challenging journey. I really was quite naïve and thought having a phone, a laptop and being able to go for a walk or drive to work, was a common practice. That was until we discovered how easy it is for a person to recruit agencies to hack and track. It’s not as if I am worth any money, want to be in the public eye, crave attention or do anything that interesting. It’s affected my mental health, in that it’s made me feel quite withdrawn and unsafe and my sense of happiness is currently very damaged. Yet, as a person I have not changed.

Life can be so very cruel and when I assess those going through difficult times too, they are the nicest people I know. Whilst the ones that do that bad stuff, seem to get away with it and don’t care who they tread on. Yet, I guess, deep down they are going through some kind of personal trauma, they perhaps disguise with a false impression. I don’t know. It doesn’t do to think about. I have my own problems, but I don’t think I have ever gone out of my way to cause hardship. I don’t carry baggage or bully my way into any person’s space. It’s far removed from my mindset how anyone can be like that?

That said, life is sweet, and it is short. It is all about finding inner peace and comfort in the simple things. I love chilling with the pets and doing my tarot. Collecting stones and looking at interior ideas. I like privacy whilst others crave attention. I don’t. These days I am just glad be here and daydream about my bucket list. One day a time. Everything any of us need is all on our doorstep in the real world. Not through a phone, PC or lens. We can all be free. I thought I should do this blog as previous posts have worried the crap out of a few people. I cannot lie, being stalked is horrific. But you have to try to live like nobody is watching. I still demand the UK Government implement safety and regulative laws to protect women in particular, from non permissive spyware and unauthorised intrusion, from not only the stalker but also, those offering such services to make our lives a misery. Imagine being paid to follow an innocent woman down a little High Street to buy sweets and toiletries for her Mother. Or to hide a camera in a tree. Or to remotely view a laptop. Ridiculous.

Have a Great Week All.

Tiff. X

The murder of charlene Downes cold case Case has been re opened £100,000 reward announced on BBC. Blackpool.

Every person deserves end of life dignity. Time to say goodbye to their friends, family and those they take care of, in a peaceful way of departure. Charlene Downes did not have this privelidge and the path of devastation for the unfortunate life she left behind is beyond any type of comprehension.

There is evil on this earth. Bring her soul justice. In the name of truth and faith in goodness of conscience. There is no glory in natural life depravation, abuse, hate and revenge. She was so loved, despite her complexed path and extreme hardship. People are still fighting to give her disappearance some kind of closure. How can any person walk on this planet knowing what really happened to her. We live in a world like this?

Every life deserves a memorial with dignity and respect. A time to be born and a date to die in remembrance of celebration for Mother Nature. The cold blooded act of murder is the greatest sin of all. Do not be a bystander. Come forward. There is no such thing as an inferior being. We are all equal. We are all serving a purpose. Life is Precious.

Tiffany Belle Harper.

The Belmarsh Tribunal D.C. — The Case of Julian Assange

On January 20, 2023, Democracy Now! livestreamed the Belmarsh Tribunal from Washington, D.C. The event featured expert testimony from journalists, whistleblowers, lawyers, publishers and parliamentarians on assaults to press freedom and the First Amendment of the U.S.

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Constitution Democracy Now!’s Amy Goodman and Srecko Horvat, the co-founder of DiEM25, will chair the tribunal, which is being organized by Progressive International and the Wau Holland Foundation. Members of the tribunal include: Daniel Ellsberg, Pentagon Papers whistleblower Noam Chomsky, linguist and activist Jeremy Corbyn, member of U.K. Parliament and founder of the Peace and Justice Project Chip Gibbons, policy director of Defending Rights & Dissent Kevin Gosztola, managing editor of Shadowproof. Margaret Kunstler, civil rights attorney. Stefania Maurizi, investigative journalist, Il Fatto Quotidiano Jesselyn Radack, national security and human rights attorney, Ben Wizner, lead attorney at ACLU of Edward Snowden Renata Ávila, human rights lawyer, technology and society expert Jeffrey Sterling, lawyer and former CIA employee. Steven Donziger, human rights attorney, Kristinn Hrafnsson, editor-in-chief, WikiLeaks Katrina vanden Heuvel, editorial director and publisher, The Nation Selay Ghaffar, spokesperson, Solidarity Party of Afghanistan Betty Medsger, investigative reporter Suchitra Vijayan, writer, photrapher & activist.

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As a british citizen I call upon the UK government to stand for victims of stalking, abuse and intimidation. To address our basic rights to privacy at home and in the work place.

I call upon The British Government across all parties to unite in tougher laws against common stalking. Where every claim of a stalking offence is fully investigated, regardless of how unlikely that claim may initially seem. To include the use of hidden spy cameras, phone hacking, car and GPS trackers, web and Alexa sabotage, allowing a coward to operate anywhere in the world using portable magnetic, web and radio spyware.

Stalking is a violation of basic human rights that can destroy lives. It imprisons the victims and removes their right to privacy. We must bring maximum penalties and full exposure and a register to name and shame stalkers. Stalking is the highest form of cowardice and can in many cases, result in physical harm to the victim. Stalkers are of the belief they can take the privacy of another without their permission. It is psychological abuse and mental torture. No person should feel invaded or imprisoned in their personal space, at work or any vicinity.

People are being traced online as home workers to find their precise locations and pursued across social accounts, regardless of the blocking facilities, thus denied their basic rights to earn an income or lead normal lives. And a stalker may observe family, friends and routines to establish the whereabouts of the sufferer.

The UK will not be a free society until stalking is taken seriously and addressed on every level, to catch the sick mind of a coward and bring the Peeping Tom to justice in a court of law. As such, stalkers are mentally sick and a danger to society. A stalker lives in denial and when this person has too much time and money on their hands, it may become a spiralling, endless obsession. Stalkers are dangerous to themselves, their mindset – but most of all the innocent sufferers. And many stalkers appear to lead normal lives, little beknown to those around them the horror they cause in their ‘other’ world of jealousy and self-dissatisfaction. Stalkers are unhappy and morose in their thought patterns – taking pleasure from the sense of control and bad intention firmly rooted within them.

A stalker may be reluctant to seek help or any form of counselling for their disorder, believing it is all the fault of the victim and probably everything else they cannot control. A stalker is delusional and dangerous in need of attention by any means. A stalker in many cases will live by mood swings (peaks and troughs) with addictions to enhance self-confidence. Making
the wrong decisions under the influence of mind alerting substances, alcohol (not limited to but) being the most common.

A stalker will have a perpetual need for any means of attention, praise or credit, finding it hard to obtain any sense of spiritual awareness or self-peace. They may be reluctant to engage in sport or group activities, where they are unable to control the outcome. The thought of losing or not being in control of any situation is their downfall, as in turn they are unable to live in a real world of day-to-day life experiences, for which most of us deal with as part of  our routines – and this may include parenthood, charity and/or community work in the real world and healthy, happy relationships of equal measures. Where both parties can connect with society on every level, with respect.

A stalker will be insecure and see most situations as ‘rivalry’ or an ‘obstacle.’ They have a fear of not winning or being out shone. Preferring to remain stuck in their own minds with a belief of having to appear greater or better. In turn the stalker may take pleasure in causing further anguish to the victim for any of their own shortfalls, as this is easier than acquiring self-help or an acceptance of their psychotic patterns to intimidate, belittle or bully those who are not able (or reluctant) to fight back. The stalker not having the inner strength to take responsibility for his/her lack of fulfilment, thus choosing obsession and control as an alternative. In turn the stalker becoming stuck in dated views and opinions with the belief they are always right and already know everything (ignorance and self-denial being significant.) And the concerning thing about stalking is because they remain stuck in their own cycle of opinion, they can go on to stalk their victims throughout their life, with
no means to end their cruel indulgences. Or worst still instigate physical harm to the victim.

The stalkers sense of power outweighs any kind of common logic, empathy or acceptance of the harm they ‘will’ on their fixations. And the abuser will take pride in shaming others, in order to shed responsibility for their own ill deeds. Many playground bullies go on to stalk, bully and/or abuse the seemingly vulnerable. Or perpetrators who were bullied during their younger years may go on to enjoy intimidating others in later life, perhaps due to not forgiving or letting go of their own ‘earlier’ life experiences. Either way, these patterns can never be acceptable in a modern, evolving society.

Is ‘stalking’ and ‘intimidation’ what you want for your loved ones? To allow the susceptible and in cases, associated loved ones to be held to hostage in their own homes, and places of work without a voice? I call for immediate action to end phycological baiting and illegal stalking and give all sufferers the protection and assurance they deserve and the right to live in a free society. And for those enlisted to carry out such acts of embedding tracking devices and pin
hole software (for example) to be prosecuted alongside the instigator.

To be a bystander is to play a part in the horrific circumstances inflicted upon those who are at risk. A stalker will target a person he believes to be alone or isolated, because a stalker is a coward and unable to accept, he/she is never going to be a part of the victim’s aspirations or future plans. They refuse to accept this or to live in their own alignments. Bringing misery and desperation to the target. Stalking is hard line abuse.

I hope this blog can help at least one person to get past unnecessary hardship and provocation. Furthermore, I have written a ‘self-help’ book with plenty of practical advice about this topic. Showing factual cases of sublime threats, locations, personal details and information from a stalker who uses phycological techniques, numerical and detailed references to real time personal events, coinciding with dates and synchronicities as a result of technical intrusion. It is a systematical diary and reference for those who seek support. This is a book that is now with an educated friend, agent and editor for whom I have known for many years and has followed such events in detail with this particular subject and field. Also, how to track various forms of spyware, then associate it to the origin for further ongoing long-term law enforcement and
media investigation.

On a much brighter note, sleep well, all. Most people are just lovely and there’s so much to live for. Remember most real people have busy lives and plenty to do in their own worlds. We are all building life’s tapestry, one way or another. Only a very small minority object to that. We choose who we want around us. And no person has any right to take our freedom.

Confide. Walk Tall. It’s not your fault this is happening to you and most importantly to those who suffer at the hands of abuse or intimidation, as a wise friend who has since passed, once told me, we are stronger together. We are survivors and things can get better. Speak with loved ones and never confront or agree to negotiate any kind of resolve with a prowler/abuser. They will use this to gain your awareness, causing further harm.

Tiff. X

Martyn Joseph – Albert’s Place (Radio 2’s 21st Century Folk)

Martyn Joseph performs his song ‘Albert’s Place’ to the woman who inspired it, Andrea Bell, in the Sunderland foodbank and soup kitchen that she runs. Andrea and her fellow volunteers provide food and hot meals, and help people to find accommodation. Since the cost of living increased sharply, they have noticed a big increase in need. Radio 2’s 21st Century Folk follows five real people as they each have an original song written about them. To hear Andrea’s full story, find 21st Century Folk on BBC Sounds:…

Produced by 7digital for the BBC.

Andrea Bell – Legend. X

Art of ‘Philosophy Meditations’ by my son Ashley Phelps

I welcome pain as it reminds me of my own mortality.

I follow the path of destiny my pure heart leads my way.

Don’t trust others trust yourself follow your heart.

Care for others and your mind will care for you.

Never go too deep into a subject/ field as it’s possible to fall down a hole, it’s much wiser to touch the surface with your intuition.

We were given an intuition for a reason so use it. It’s located in the pineal gland. As humans we have forgotten to use many qualities that our Creator gave us.

God / our Creator giving us life to commit suicide would be a crime against God. When it’s you time it’s your time. Not with fear or threats.

Rhythm comes before everything.

Knowledge is power not money.

Information is a jigsaw piece, put each piece together to see the big picture.

The clues to our past and future higher knowledge can be found within history, music, movies, religion, Philosophy, poetry. God doesn’t communicate with words, he uses the creative process of thought and arts. Unfortunately so does negativity so it’s important to follow the correct information, be careful who and what advice you choose to follow.

Train your brain and your brain will train you.

Poor selfless people who think they are stupid are often more intelligent than a rich selfish person who claims to know everything.

Think with your heart and your brain will follow.

No one is stupid; everyone has a talent and a weakness. A good leader can recognise talent in everyone.

Learn a little Everyday and Knowledge will follow you through life.

Intelligence is the greatest weapon.

Over-confidence is the greatest weakness.

You must believe in yourself before believing in others.

Intuition is the key to Higher Knowledge.

Rhythm is the greatest remedy.

Positive thinking = Good Health.

Own your Mind don’t let it Own you.

Rhythm = Energy = Mass

To be enlightened or not to be enlightened, that is the question.

Collective consciousness is the most powerful force within the universe. If we all believe the world is beautiful and peaceful then it will be.

We are all one race all living in one universe.

Good health is the greatest asset anyone can own.

Never leave a problem unsolved.

A neutral opinion is the most valuable form of advice.

A sub conscious mind is more knowledgeable than a conscious mind.

Try to keep your mind young to achieve your desires.

Worrying is a waste of time.

To follow a curriculum will only take you so far, to become self taught you can go all the way.

If you can’t solve a problem immediately put it to the back of your mind to pick up later.

If the same piece of information comes from two or more sources it’s often true

History leaves a blueprint for the future.

Don’t judge others judge yourself.

Intelligence is unmeasurable.

Television Media is man’s worst invention.

Let your mind flow, don’t let it become concrete.

Never let imagination swell up.

Look after the earth and earth will look after us.

Always think outside of the box only go back into the box when you have the answer.

Truth will always win the marathon in the end it just jogs at a slower pace. Lies sprint at the start of the marathon and eventually they tire out and come last.

Television is humanities worst teacher.

Knowledge is built upon nostalgia.

The largest library in the world is the internet.

Happiness is the Frequency of Heaven.

Power to the People.

God our Creator has the power now I just give him a hand. ( my left hand. )

God/ our Creator is with us all he lives In the subconscious mind.

The subconscious mind is very powerful force of nature.

Over the past 5000 years we have inadvertently created a sub world with our collective subconscious mind and it’s unbalanced. We need to stop creating and imagining negative characters as a collective whole.

If we imagine horror (e.g. movies, baddies in film) we create Horror. When I sleep I see the flaws of human imagination. That’s why the world needs positive beliefs to create positive imaginations.

The human race is a collective species information travels without the need to write it down.

Ignore your credit rating, follow your heart-beat, money can’t buy health and you certainly can’t take it with you.

If you ever feel like you’re not succeeding in contentment, try a different path.

Observing how Mother Nature works and animals survive is one of the greatest sources of knowledge.

War usually involves a rich old man sending poor young men to either kill or be killed. Peace involves young men helping old men. Peace should be the way of life.

It’s true we do need money ( security ) to survive but having too much is a route to evil as the history books clearly demonstrate.

Doing anything to excess or too little can eventually be bad for you. Even with Art, I don’t focus on one particular area of art I like to do a bit of everything Music, draw, philosophy, photography and etc. Then I will jump into history or just switch off completely – it’s all about balance.

An Expert is just someone who claims to know everything. A Wiseman is someone who claims to know nothing.

Acknowledge the past and live in present and the future will take care of itself.

My weakness is listening to music but it’s a good weakness to have.

The best thing to believe in, is yourself.

Don’t plan just do it.

We are all masters of our own fate.

Within intuition you will find your higher self – the most difficult bit is learning to trust your intuition.

Train your mind to let go of the body and trust your soul.

Children have a higher spiritual Knowledge than adults.

An enemy is a figment of imagination

I’m not scared of my adversary I find them laughable and pathetic. In a weird way I feel sorry for their stupidity and lack of higher knowledge.

Rise above your competitor / adversary’s feed from the surface – don’t sink to their level and become a bottom feeder.

Don’t worry about greedy bankers and corrupt politicians, as the future already has a plan to deal with them effectively.

The greatest form of ownership is giving.

My family may think I’m stupid we will let the history books decide.

The key to life is happiness it opens many doors.

I only see beauty in the soul, I don’t find lots of make up attractive as people who wear make up are probably trying to hide something.

If you have self love you don’t need to look like the fake celebrities in the magazines.

Before one can help others,  first they must learn to help themselves.

Victory is a destination, just decide on the path and it will always be in sight.

The word failure doesn’t exist it’s a figment of imagination.

Planning your life enters you into the life of the current system, following destiny allows you to follow your soul purpose. Don’t plan to go to a particular shop or destination take walk ( mindless stroll ) and when you feel the impulse of your intuition, enter with your free will.

The ancient ancestors had a Higher Knowledge than us because they thought with their hearts. Even today many people still don’t know how they did it ( look at their engineering marvels look how they built pyramids )

The heart is our primary organ the brain just relays what the heart desires.

Im not scared of death as the soul lives on, I just hope it happens after I have defeated all evil In this world.

Money is the root of all evil. Banks are false temples that govern the world through media manipulation. People can lend money to each other without the use of a 3rd party, and instead of relying on media have a conversation with another soul instead.

Everyone has an equal part to play in life.

Wealth is found in the soul not your bank account.

A Fair Democracy has no Leader, it should be carried out on a round table and everyone should be part of the circle.

I don’t predict the future, I maintain to live in the present, when I acknowledge history it allows me not to make repetitive mistakes. Repeating mankind’s errors is the biggest mistake anyone can make. Make history your book of worship, it’s all there to read, learn from past lives. Don’t believe everything in history just let you soul decide what’s right and wrong. You will never know where you’re going if you don’t know where you have been.

Communicate with nature and it will speak back.

I was given this life I didn’t choose it.

The greatest lesson isn’t science, math’s, religion, English it’s Life’s Lesson. They ( the current system which will soon not exist ) will never teach you that at school, you have to teach yourself.

The SOUL is found within the heart the MIND in the brain let your BODY decide who to follow. Think of your body as a mobile phone cover/ protector that changes over time its the internal dynamics which matter.

Philosophy is the foundation for every subject.

The best way to solve a problem is to keep things simple.

No one has control/power over any other people, people have the power within them, they just need to find it and believe in it. Evil is the only thing to will harm. Karma never ignores such attacks on the innocent.

An army doesn’t define you as a leader, it’s knowledge. Don’t lead others lead yourself.

Read with your intuition not your brain. Your intuition will always remember what you need to learn.

Don’t judge a person by the body (book by the cover) it’s the soul (word content) that matters.

We can all perceive a perfect world, you just have to know where to look.

Don’t assume we know everything about nature, try to think nature knows everything about us.

Before money existed we lived with nature and nature lived with us. Many monasteries/temples around the world lived harmoniously with nature, without money.

Rivers, wind and sun create power through turbines and solar power not money, plants/ Mother Earth give us food not money. Clean rivers provide water not money. Music and positive thinking heals, not money all we have to do is give each other the love we all deserve and that’s priceless.

Less is more

The richest man is the one who is at peace with his own mind.

Materialism is a false religion.

No one should tell another what to believe in they should just believe in themselves.

Kindness rewards the pure soul, money, ambitions reward the ego. Most egos are a false realisation.

It’s common to believe we all speak different languages and follow different religions, when actually we all speak the same language and have the same souls.

Make patience your ally as intelligence needs time.

Confidence originates from happiness.

Power comes from the heart 

Ashley Phelps – December 2022❤️