‘ Lessons ‘ by Tiffany Belle Harper

Life’s a funny old thing. We must know that people may come into our world unexpectedly and leave the same. Often they have the greatest gift.

We learn, we exchange, we thank, we part. We never forget.

For life is a lesson – a blend of all good and bad – yes … there will be mistakes. We learn most by these.

We should use our fondest memories to share love. To forgive, forget and evolve as individuals. To sparkle in our communities. Indeed to turn up, to participate is to shine most vividly.

Less is more. Look out for the quiet people as that’s where you’ll most likely find your next adventures.

Broken hearts heal. Our darkest moments make us stronger. Follow your dreams and remember the last person you think of at night is the one you’ll talk with whilst you sleep. As the moon caresses your spirit for brighter days.

Don’t let anyone make you feel you’re not good enough. Avoid ego, be humble. Most importantly never expect to be appreciated or rewarded. The bigger picture does not miss a thing. So don’t forebode. We’re all loved as much as we are noticed for the good we do. So we must forgive those who cause us pain, they need help most.

Give wishes freely – expect none by return. For magic finds us all, when we believe. Love, gestures and goodwill hide in the most unlikely of nooks and caverns. Slow down … dance with fairies,  ride with lost kings. Let your imagination enjoy the freedom of the unknown.

Tiffany Belle Harper.

Little Update, love Tiffy x

I hope you all had a great Easter break. Thanks for the people who’ve got in touch regarding BellEvaUK. It’s a little website for those who started out like me -to get together and have a community point to share art, music, news and blogs etc.

However, due to a property project I am not going to find much time between now and summer to put my ‘all’ in to it. I’ve still been online. Mainly on YouTube building play lists of music to keep me going with the paint brush. I’ve been popping on and off here and media to see what my friends are up to.

I had an operation on my jaw on February 3rd. I was told to take it real easy for a few months. However just a few days after, I was cleaning and emptying my apartment in Warwick for the new owner. I’ve had the place for a few years. It was tenanted and looked after itself. But as the tenants left I decided to sell it. There’s not a lot of equity there but it’s part of letting go of the past.

It would be fair to say I’ve had a rubbish solicitor and what should have taken a few weeks to complete is now into its third month. I would advise anybody who purchases a leasehold property (most multi-apartment blocks are) to check the fine print. They’re not the easiest things to get rid of. Then much to my dismay, I discover somebody going way back to 2007 took a loan out against the property. This really did throw me into a pickle. It’s all getting resolved but talk about red tape …

Amidst all of this I sadly lost a close relative. It’s true that ‘sometimes’ everything seems to come at once, doesn’t it!

But apart from that all is good. I am going away for a couple of days later in the month with Wetnose Animal Aid. It will be heart rendering at times – but good to spend time with Andrea. I will let you know more during our trip.

I’m off to Warwick next week. It’s great to have the lighter nights back. The winters are too long. Have a nice weekend.

Tiffany x