Illness Does Not Define Identity: A Call for Dignity

In a world where words can wound as deeply as actions, it is heartbreaking to hear insults aimed at people whose bodies have endured illness or surgery. To say that a woman without a womb is ā€œless of a womanā€ is not only cruel—it is profoundly untrue.

🌸 Womanhood is not erased by surgery

A woman who has undergone a hysterectomy remains fully herself. Her breasts, her hormones, her libido, her lived experience—all of these continue to shape her identity. The absence of a womb does not diminish her femininity, her dignity, or her right to be seen as whole.

šŸ’Ŗ Manhood is not erased by illness


The same truth applies to men. A man who has had his testicles removed due to illness or medical necessity is no less a man. Masculinity is not defined by a single organ, but by the breadth of his life, his relationships, his resilience, and his humanity.

āš–ļø Illness should never be weaponised


When illness or surgery becomes a target for nasty remarks, it reveals more about the cruelty of the speaker than the identity of the person being insulted. These remarks attempt to reduce complex, resilient human beings to a single body part, ignoring the fullness of their lives.

šŸŒ Feminine and masculine are lived realities


Femininity and masculinity are not fragile constructs that collapse under the weight of illness. They are lived, embodied, and expressed in countless ways—through care, through strength, through creativity, through love.

✨ A manifesto of dignity


We must resist the idea that illness makes anyone ā€œless than.ā€ Every person deserves respect, regardless of the changes their body has endured. To honour this truth is to honour humanity itself.


Tiffy Belle šŸ‡

Astounding Individuality: My 2025 Crowned Voices

Aside from My Hatter and others who have claimed their own voices amidst this often cowardly world of side‑taking and hypocrisy, two figures stand out to me this year.

Karoline Leavitt ✨

My female inspiration has to be Karoline Leavitt, who has got up, got dressed, and looked fabulous for her cause and tradition.

She has stood afront of some of the most horrid critics and fought for her right to represent what she believes in. That is something we both have in common.

I also commend her for supporting the ā€œunder dogsā€ in Great Britain—those who have, at times, felt as though being British is a permit for haters.

Charlie Peters šŸ‘‘

I move on to a truly organic patriot for all things worthy, who has not yet received the merit he deserves for tireless work.

Through investigative journalism and dedicated support, Charlie Peters has stood beside women who have suffered in ways that are scarcely credible in my country.

A man with no other agenda than to bring truth to justice, he faced odds stacked against him and did not give up.

Without a doubt, Charlie Peters wears a crown for the feminine plight against abuse, rape, and sabotage.

This structure honours your voice while giving each figure their own spotlight.

I love you both with all my heart. And a Plum Dish is on the way, my darlings.

In a world too often marked by intrusion and cowardice, individuality remains crown. These choices for 2025 are not just acknowledgements of courage, but reminders that truth, tradition, and dignity endure. Every vessel, every companion, every voice is proof of resilience.

Tiffy Belle šŸ‡

My Appreciation Kudos

Just a bit of fun, since life is also about kudos and merit. Though it’s only little me doing this thing coming your way.

But later I shall be announcing my two heroes for Christmas. One-of-a-kind humans. A male and a female.

Stay Tuned. I can’t ascertain a time as I am so busy. But it will happen. I have known for a long while who I want to appreciate publicly out there.

Clue: They’re both public figures and one is across the pond.

Tiffy Belle ā¤ļø

The Vintage Cycle: Selling Old and Preloved Treasures

People often look at vintage sellers and assume it’s all about buying cheap and selling high. At first glance, the mark-up can seem unfair—even cruel. But in reality, what we do is part of a much bigger cycle: the recycle process. From Pennies to Presence.

Instead of throwing things away, someone might try to get a few pennies for an item they no longer need. A vintage seller steps in, buys that bargain, and gives it another chance. That’s the beginning of the cycle.

We relist at a profit, yes—but also as a business. That means we’re eligible for tax returns, we take risks, and we shoulder costs.

Every item listed carries the possibility it may not sell.

The Hidden Work Behind the Listings.

Running a vintage shop is not just about finding treasures. It’s tireless hours spent:

– Maintaining websites and online portals

– Paying for ads, commissions, and hosting fees

– Photographing items, writing descriptions, and marketing

– Packaging, dispatching, and dealing with couriers

– Handling lost parcels, stolen deliveries, and customer service

It is endless work, often invisible to those outside the cycle.

Passion Meets Risk.

For many of us, selling vintage is not just income—it’s passion. I sell things I love, and sometimes those things go to collectors who understand their true worth. Then others nobody even notices that gorgeous set of pots which to me are priceless … It’s a gamble.

Take a wooden trinket box: I might buy it for Ā£5, sell it for Ā£20, and a collector could later sell it for Ā£80. That’s how upcycling works in retail. Value builds in layers, and each seller plays a role in that chain. This is how antiques and collectables are born.

For instance, at the same time, I may sell items for £1 or £2 flea market style. I am both the bottom and the middle of the cycle.

No one should judge—it’s hard work, deeply personal, and often precarious.

Rescue in Artefacts.

Posting ceramics is tough. Packaging fragile items, trusting couriers, and managing dispatches is stressful. Yet behind all of this is something beautiful: the act of rescue.

Vintage selling is about taking something without any presence and giving it a place in the world again. It builds value, saves objects from landfill, and preserves history. It is archaeology—but not below ground.

This matters to me, as every item sold is a small act of preservation. It’s proof that what might have been discarded can find new life, new meaning, and new value. That’s the cycle. That’s why vintage selling is an organic act of love and restoration in layers.

Charity.

In addition to the above, donating our unwanted stuff to charity is essential too. It’s about managing our time and personal finances effectively. As charity is also at home. And there’s people out there, like myself who have huge responsibilities. I fundraise and give time where I can.

Tiffy Belle 🐰