Meraki by The Renegade Press #guestblog (men opening their hearts -we need more of it)

This is one of the most beautiful things I’ve ever read! It’s so refreshing to read about guys who open their hearts. We need more of this. It melts me!

Chris Nicholas's avatarThe Renegade Press

In August 2016, a woman broke my heart. After two years of dating, during which time I convinced myself that she was the person I was destined to marry, she left me. To say that I was devastated would be an understatement. I was inconsolable, believing that my entire world had come crashing down around me. In the months that followed our failed romance, I lost my desire to write, to eat, and even to live.

Yet for all that I temporarily lost, I also learned…

I learned how to let go of the anger and depression that had consumed me, how to pick myself back up when life had knocked me down, and how to appreciate the true beauty of human compassion. But arguably the most important thing that I came to understand in my lowest moments was what it means to truly love someone. Twelve months ago I…

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Leeds Cyclist RIP from a coffee shop – daydreaming #diary

Last night my mum discovered the moth flying around her tv room has been eating her chair. Today she decided to re-upholster it. My agenda slightly different. Want to get on with writing. I’ve more time than usual as I’m waiting to get back to Leeds next week!

So … I’ve snuck off to a coffee shop in Leamington Spa where I’m currently sitting in the window, absorbing people – culture. I love time alone – fly on the wall. Being lost in a world where there’s variety, diversity, chat – traffic hums. I often wonder when people walk fast whether they’re trying to look important. Why does sauntering deem itself untrendy?

Got stuck into a bowl of mussels. I don’t eat meat – do fish now and again. I don’t have to justify – I just listen to my soul food.

Received call from Leeds. Sad news. A cyclist got hit by a car out of control – now dead. Head and legs not in tact. It was messy … Tragic.

I’ve been saying for years there’re no adequate lanes for cyclists on the Kirkstall Road. Something really needs to be done about this. Cyclists are not second class citizens. They’re taking a healthier option. Many too, can’t afford cars. Some person going to work today never arrived. I send love.

I’ve been lost without my camera. It’s not flashy but I’m used to it. I get the result I want. I’m not technically knowledgeable about software but I have a creative eye. I tried to photograph some soup and I think the lens got steamed up beyond repair. I don’t think we’re supposed to stick them in saucepans on the boil …?

Found specialist shop – they’ve got me a replacement lens at £139.00 – maybe time to think about a new camera – I shall ponder. I am building quite a collection of gadgets. My load is heavy. I’ve now got an iPhone too, but – it’s not the same as my camera. Despite my nomadic impression, I am a creature of habit. I stick with what works well for me.

Time to crack on – I’ve a coffee to finish then some writing. I wanted to video the Xmas lights but I’ve forgot my video camera! aaahh!

The photo I’ve attached is of a previous adventure in Banbury. I am on my Chromebook so have limited files.

Thoughts right now with friends and family of Leeds cyclist. I will light a candle later and have a few moments. We must all consider cyclists as much as any other person using the road.

Tiffany X