Tag: faith

Flowers find a way.

I find myself adopting ‘out of date’ flowers from the supermarket, for free, And they rebloom around the house! A small bonus to life, but it’s made me happy these last couple of weeks. Good things do come when we slow down and open our eyes. Pebbles. Shells. A coin. There’s little presents everywhere. And sometimes the less we have, the more we appreciate life’s blessings. these pesky petals will soon pick up.

I accidentally deleted my ‘Truth Social’ account. Long story … my apologies (mainly to myself, for being such an airhead at times.) I wanted to blog here about our British Army. I don’t see why they can’t be called upon to help with our own national emergencies, such as the bin crisis in Birmingham. I grew up there and it used to be a leafy district full of community. It’s declined beyond all recognition. My mum told me the smell of the garbage is toxic. I do understand that some progress is being made. That said, if we had the backup of the army to call in for such matters, it may deter people who have stable jobs and a regular salary from constantly ‘spitting their dummies out’ for more money.

Being ‘self employed’ or a ‘small business owner’ we cannot just pack up for want of more income. We have to just roll up our sleeves and work even harder. And then we have no back up for our online and work place security. We must cover it all ourselves. No sick pay. No complaints procedure. Nothing. Just focus and determination.

And as for all these tariffs, I know it is a problem to those affected. But then on the positive side, it’s broken down globalism, where we were in the process of being thrown into one big boiling pot, then ‘possibly’ controlled by powers unknown. Though I do hope things settle down. Balance requires chaos. It always has done. A heart of faith cannot be broken. And by faith I mean, having respect for the food chain. Respecting land. Showing all dignity toward women and girls. Being gracious toward the voice of others in their freedom by birth right. And never tolerant of public violence and organised acts of terror, on any level. Either online or in reality. Though the internet can be a huge instigator of unrest. Particularly amongst cowards with a keyboard who stir it up for fun and attention.

Be warned ... those in Ivory Towers believe they’re safe from retribution. Maybe due to their own lack of enthusiasm toward the simple things in life. Shame. Go for a walk. Grab coffee with a friend. Your phones can wait. One day none of us will be taking any tech with us, as we move on to the next dimension of our infinite journey. Or a black hole of no return. Your choice folks. We’re all flying solo, really. We choose our own personal destinations as we transition toward the next adventure. Though Love Never Dies. I believe it waits for us.

No skin colour is privileged. No skin colour has the right to change our culture. Not here. Not anywhere. We are all beautiful. We must accept one another or go and live where it feels like home.

My own world, I have a house full of guests and animals. No heating. No hot water. It’s getting resolved, though sadly I discovered my Hive thermostat has been tampered with remotely. What a way to go. Have to laugh …

Finally, as for the NHS. Any person seeking free medical attention should have to show ID as we are not equipped to heal the world by means of charity. And big pharma are charging way too much money for pharmaceuticals, getting rich from the back of national debt. Someone needs to work on negotiating better prices for the NHS, whilst also encouraging new drugs and treatments available in ‘Europe’ for example. Such as stem cell technology, etc.

We need to keep up and get the ‘over spending’ behind us. To tackle the greedy monsters in the matrix. As for Euthanasia. Having held people and animals in my arms, during their last breath, a peaceful death is a blessing. I for one wish to choose how I go and it would not be to suffer extreme pain and prolonged suffering. Each to their own! We are quite capable of making our own decisions. Thank You!

There is apparently, one millionaire and their family, leaving the UK, each 45 minutes. Whilst hundreds more people arrive for free housing etc. Not sure why we are letting this spiral out of control? It makes no sense to me at the moment? Hard to find words. Being successful is something we all want for our loved ones, it is not a sin, provided we have our own original morals and retain some goodness. Often those who complain the loudest, (in support of this surge of global free-loading) have more money than the rest of us.

Let’s help our nation. We are Stronger Together.

Please watch out for the many Chinese online shops selling completely unwearable clothing and other goods. The sites suggest they’re based in the UK and have a ‘Closing Down Sale.’ They are using AI images. It is a con and it’s out of control! We could not get away with this scam in our own businesses here, so why should they!! DISCRACEFUL!! BUY BRITISH while we still have some of it left!

Plus, we need to ban all racing involving animals. They were not born to compete for us to gamble our cash. Leave it now. Give them peace. Dogs and horses have many ways to work with humans, which does not involve abuse and suffering. Shame on All Involved!! And don’t get me started with our current food chain. Barbaric! We need good sustainable products to pride to the world. To look after our farmers and help them produce wholesome, affordable products. No back street slaughter houses, punching and torturing baby calves etc. Vile!!

Tiffy Belle. X

by Tiffany Belle Harper

Mannequins and Wax at Belleva

I have a fear of deadlines. Years ago, I used to design, sell and hire out mannequins. They were not the easiest things to package and deliver. Human size. A little like working in a morgue but within the fashion sector. I had to ensure the mannequins were delivered to venues, then dressed accordingly and returned immediately afterwards, as otherwise I could lose them. They would end up buried away in prop rooms or worst still, stolen. I did ask for a deposit to cover this eventuality, so we still got by. But you know, I sort of got attached to the dummies. There will be mannequins here at Belleva and we are at 30 St Chad’s Road Blackpool.

I have spent over two years renovating Belleva. It’s been done in stages, and I have paid attention to each small detail. As this is a project with my ‘creative’ side, I have not simply done the basic requirements to get the doors open and take bookings. I have savored each small move, as I want to appreciate everything life gives to me. I want to see the reason why I have had so many challenges. It’s certainly made me wiser, because when things go wrong, I take time alone to reflect where this could have been done differently. And when humans intentionally hurt me, I ask myself why I allowed this to happen. Being ‘creative’ has the same ‘empathetic’ values within our sensitivity radar. It goes hand in hand.

The important thing in life is not to go looking for negativity and to have strength to focus only on that which drives us forward with optimism and positive mindset. I have had some promotional opportunities but it’s a 7-bed hotel, so I don’t really want to overburden the public arena. It really is about balance.

I don’t want to exist hanging on reviews either, as doing this trade for over 3 years most of ‘my’ visitors don’t do mobile phones etc, which surprised me with this ‘internet culture’ many live almost simulations existence within. When in the past I have had the ‘not so nice’ reviews there is always a hidden reason. And it’s usually we just didn’t get on – but generally speaking I did well considering I didn’t really know what the hell I was doing. It is a pity small business cannot review their guests by return as there are some shitty manners out there. Although I always say and will stand by, most people really are adorable. And there is nothing wrong with constructive criticism. But when a guest leaves smiling saying they’ve had the best time ever then resort to the web to complain, it’s too late for me to do anything.

With Tripadvisor they do a hashtag to position each venue and this is based on many factors to include how often the venue is open and available. So for instance if a hotel closes during the week they will be near the back of the hashtag score. I don’t buy into that shit.

I have made Belleva in Blackpool an adult only hotel and often wonder whether I have made a mistake but the amount of washing up and laundry we get with larger occupancy to rooms is a lot of work. It took me sometimes until lunch time to get up straight after breakfast and then the piles of laundry were overwhelming. I am 56 years old and think that running a couples (adults) hotel will be more manageable, as I do have a life beyond cleaning.

I am really excited to share my home. And yes, to me it is my home – as I put my heart into the things I have chosen to do in life. Although my apartment at the back is my own little hub of happiness. It’s like having two lives all in one place and I am glad to be on this journey.

There have been mishaps. I flooded my bay window room. Nothing really matches (but I knew it wouldn’t). I shouldn’t have stored my furnishings in there whilst it was still being renovated but I was so excited I couldn’t wait.

If I could start again though, I would still make mistakes. But I am being true to myself and have some good people around me. St Chad’s Road is a lovely street. We cannot get along with everyone as some people don’t want harmony in favour of resentment but generally speaking I have met the most inspiring and sweet people in my life within my neighbours and community. They really have given me so much support in so many ways. I hope we continue to get along as Blackpool is big enough for everyone. There is so much progress being made here. The town is shifting and changing and the art is mind blowing. Tonight I have been invited to watch Alright play their first live gig and I am taking Josie. Also, I am doing some work for Stay Blackpool this weekend. Blackpool is a good place to live as there are no awkward introductions, you can get straight into groups and crafts. Everyone is very sweet.

As for breakfast. I have had a lot of feedback about this. My guests want the full English. I also want to offer a more extensive vegan option. Since we have local produce delivered to our doors I will probably stick with the more traditional approach. But I will also be doing meals. Belleva is my ‘social’ too and I want to talk with you all. I want us to nibble at posh natural cheese, organic fruit, dips and yummy desserts.

Remember I have my soap and wax counter too. If anyone fancies making some melts or candles with me let me know. Would love to play!

You will also meet my friends some of which are other hoteliers and interesting people from our community. They just drop in. I have no idea where this will take us but life’s short.

See you Soon.

Tiffany Belle Harper.

by Tiffany Belle Harper

very precious to me

I am using my blog via my phone at the moment as we are not at home – so I can’t adjust sizes etc. This is so precious. A beautiful sunny day in the hands of love and the universe. Never lose faith in whatever makes you feel good inside out. That’s what the right people will love most about you.

Tiffy. Xx

 

by Tiffany Belle Harper