The Roads I’ve Walked

I’m Tiffany Belle Harperβ€”creator, sanctuary-maker, and unapologetic truth-teller. I’ve lived a nomadic life, towing a caravan across the UK with my beloved animal kin, settling in valleys and coastal towns, always seeking realness over routine.

I once lived in a static home in a Welsh valley, surrounded by mist and memory. I’ve walked amongst people from all backgroundsβ€”builders, poets, wanderers, survivorsβ€”and I’ve never been afraid to explore.

Community is my compass. It’s everywhere, if you choose to see it.

Before I ran hotels and guest houses, I worked closely with women’s causes and supported animal welfare centres. Advocacy and sanctuary have always been part of my rhythmβ€”whether through direct action, quiet support, or creative stewardship. I’ve given shelter to animals and, at times, to people who needed a safe place to land.

I’ve run a bed and breakfast, designed a derelict hotel in Blackpool to twinkle again, and poured love into spaces that others had forgotten. I’ve worked in hospitality, interior styling, and creative projects. I once ran a mannequin business, crafting window displays that told storiesβ€”but that chapter ended violently. I survived an assault that nearly cost me my life. I’ve gone on to be stalked, harassed, and attacked on many levels. I speak of it not for pity, but because silence protects the wrong people.

I rise. I recalibrate. I create. Being decent can unfortunately provoke the worst in others. Not my baggage.

I’ve been homeless. I’ve known what it means to start again with nothing but grit and grace. I do not hold onto the past. I move forward, always. I love new challenges, and I’ve worked on many creative projectsβ€”from mannequin design to sanctuary spaces. I’m good with people in the real worldβ€”face to face, heart to heart. I’m not good at promoting myself, and I’m rubbish at social media. But I’m brutally honest with myself, and I honour that as a strength.

I hate cowardice and injustice. I speak out for those who suffer in silence. I believe bystanders are complicit, and I will never be one.

As I grow older, I seek to be more settled. I’m exploring ways to anchor myself into the things I love mostβ€”comfort rituals, creative expression, and the transmission of energetical love through tangible things. I curate by resonance, not rule. I believe in aesthetic agency, in choosing how we adorn ourselves as acts of sovereignty. I honour animal kinship as family. I find sanctuary in music, myth, and the realness of media that doesn’t flinch.

This blog has been a space for truth, beauty, and reclamation. It’s not polished. It’s not performative. It’s mine.

Tiffy Belle 🧑