Day: April 6, 2018

Please Do Not Suffer in Silence. Sharing is your Friend

It doesn’t matter how I feel about a person personally – it would not make any difference at all to learn they felt unhappy at home. I would fight for anyone who may feel detached from reality due to abuse and a sense of self doubt because of loving a person you do not necessarily like. I am stubborn. I have been in bad relationships and I walk away. But for others, it’s not so easy if you feel a sense of helplessness.

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A few years ago – I  had an abusive relationship, where I was assaulted and I am not playing victim here. But by sharing our experiences we can reach out to others. So if anyone ever wants to speak with me – do get in touch. I would not wish hardship on anyone. There is a better world out there for all of you who may feel trapped with your circumstances –  sometimes feeling emotionally attached to a person may be fear related. Perhaps you feel so low in yourself that it seems impossible to survive without your abuser to pick you up and drop you down. Where you rely on their highs to get through their lows. But it doesn’t have to be like this for you. Life is short and you deserve abundance.

I know real love exists for all of us when we are brave enough to let go of that which controls us. We really do not have to fear anything. And I would hate to think any person (women and girls in particular) feel their lives are suffering because of oppression at home. I don’t want anyone out there to believe they do not have anyone to speak with. Because I care and I will make time for you. I promise. So don’t be a stranger.

An abuser is a weak person – they will not want you to participate in activities away from them. They may make you feel they depend on you and vice versa. But this is not true. Join groups and get involved with activities away from your abuser/controller. Find ways to grow as an individual and new doors do open. They really do and one day you will look back and wonder why you wasted all those years feeling like half the person you could be. Love is the Answer and abuse is not love. Be happy! It’s free too.

Tiffany. X

by Tiffany Belle Harper

The Mysterious City of Atlantis Discovery Channel Documentary #education #video

There is a missing link in our knowledge of history. We are always evolving – learning – considering new findings. Here is a video about Atlantis. Videos like this are a good way to spend time on the internet – learning – expanding our minds. When we become focused on social media we are losing time. Do you have children or do you work with children? Showing them educational videos is a better way to guide them towards a more fulfilled future. Education is so good and important in all aspects of our short lives here during this particular journey.

Breaking bad habits is a tough thing to do – having healthier more beneficial ways to use our minds is a win win situation.

I love this video. I hope you enjoy it if you can find some time to watch and share. It’s fun to learn and to absorb new information regarding our planet and nature put together by experts who have gone to length to research this for us. Most of which are not on social media. It is a good step forward to look outwards to the bigger picture. Perhaps write down at the end of each day how you have spent your time on the internet and whether you have ‘personally’ benefited by your experience. Energy goes where attention flows. Be careful. There’s some real dirt out there that will rob you of your own journey. Stay in your power and help the children get away from all the horrid stuff.

Tiffany. X

by Tiffany Belle Harper