positive thinking

Say ‘Doodle Day’

Sometimes when we feel helpless with just wanting a day off. Do it. To stop worrying about commitments and obligations and just Doodle. Feel our own art and crafts without guilt or regret. You can make posters with vectors, pics, quotes and put them around the place. It’s not an expensive hobby and will make you feel ‘spesh’.

Jealousy is a horrid, horrid thing and something I cannot admit to ever feeling because when someone impresses me I want to be friends with them or at least send them kudos. So don’t waste your time with worthless emotions. Turn those small minded thoughts to being original and of a positive mindset. I am going to tackle the cellar. Have a great week and get over it. Life is too short so live it out with some kind of purpose that helps others. It all comes back tenfold. It really does. Smile and Smile Again! It’s contagious.

Tiff. X

April 4, 2021September 25, 2021 by Tiffany Belle Harper

An Empath Loves for Worry

A few close friends this week have had things go wrong in one way or another. Being an empath means never feeling totally happy about life, because there is always someone worse off. My most loved ones are indeed empaths. I want to send love to Janet (a wonderful part of my heart) and to another friend whose doggy lost its only born puppy at the weekend. To my mum who has an abscess on her back that has to be re-dressed and packed with seaweed every other day. She nurses my dad too. He gets up and digs the garden, despite falling over on a regular basis. I worry for my kids. I want them to have a good future.

Yesterday a gentlemen should have come here to collect a pile of things I put together for his forthcoming home – he’s homeless. He didn’t turn up and you have to make allowances as the road to recovery has many set-backs. We cannot push people to make decisions. Every journey is unique.

Today I drove past Amazing Graze and he was sat on the doorstep. After a brief conversation it transpired he could not get a lift to pick up the keys to his new home. I took him to the agents to collect them. We then returned to my place to get his parcels I had prepared, such like bedding, towels, plates, a teapot etc … ahead of making our way to his new home. It was a first floor studio in an old neglected, dirty building.

The place was left filthy and it smelt stagnant. The busiest part of town – a one way street near to a chaotic junction. But to me it was beautiful. It was a roof with walls – just needing a clean, some TLC. It bought back memories, though not good ones – I told the man, ‘great things come when we are faced with challenges.’ ‘To not fear change or new beginnings.’

I don’t enjoy blogging here anymore – it takes a lot of courage – where as I used to be nomadic – I now prefer ‘private’ with my lifestyle as in my real world there’s adventure, the seaside and friendship, to include a baby seagull. There’s never any peace. Such is life. We’re a long time dead. Embrace each day and don’t fear change. For it is change that will teach you much. Tiff. X

September 3, 2020February 12, 2021 by Tiffany Belle Harper

It will all be alright – I am here. Keep it personal. Keep it together. Go and rest.

Losing a friend is heart-breaking. We realise we can no longer hug them or look into their eyes – smell their perfume or aftershave. We can no longer do what we were so familiar with. But we must know, life to the soul journey is purely transitional – love never dies. In fact – it becomes stronger as we adjust to trust and hold our faith – it is infinite. Life is short we need to be at one in our circles of love – There’s no time for worry and fear. As we get older we concern ourselves less with the restrictions of walls and barriers. It will all be okay. I promise.

For there is love in abundance right here – now with you – and you are never alone. I wrap my arms and soul around your entirety – giving you protection like no other. So sleep, rest. You are loved. A quiet day – in the light. Look no longer where there is no service to Angels. Look above. Buy flowers – memories are treasures from heaven. Hold it close. Solace cannot be found amongst strangers today. Be with comfort.

Tiffany. X

April 19, 2018April 25, 2018 by Tiffany Belle Harper