Tag: relationships

Please Do Not Suffer in Silence. Sharing is your Friend

It doesn’t matter how I feel about a person personally – it would not make any difference at all to learn they felt unhappy at home. I would fight for anyone who may feel detached from reality due to abuse and a sense of self doubt because of loving a person you do not necessarily like. I am stubborn. I have been in bad relationships and I walk away. But for others, it’s not so easy if you feel a sense of helplessness.

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A few years ago – I  had an abusive relationship, where I was assaulted and I am not playing victim here. But by sharing our experiences we can reach out to others. So if anyone ever wants to speak with me – do get in touch. I would not wish hardship on anyone. There is a better world out there for all of you who may feel trapped with your circumstances –  sometimes feeling emotionally attached to a person may be fear related. Perhaps you feel so low in yourself that it seems impossible to survive without your abuser to pick you up and drop you down. Where you rely on their highs to get through their lows. But it doesn’t have to be like this for you. Life is short and you deserve abundance.

I know real love exists for all of us when we are brave enough to let go of that which controls us. We really do not have to fear anything. And I would hate to think any person (women and girls in particular) feel their lives are suffering because of oppression at home. I don’t want anyone out there to believe they do not have anyone to speak with. Because I care and I will make time for you. I promise. So don’t be a stranger.

An abuser is a weak person – they will not want you to participate in activities away from them. They may make you feel they depend on you and vice versa. But this is not true. Join groups and get involved with activities away from your abuser/controller. Find ways to grow as an individual and new doors do open. They really do and one day you will look back and wonder why you wasted all those years feeling like half the person you could be. Love is the Answer and abuse is not love. Be happy! It’s free too.

Tiffany. X

by Tiffany Belle Harper

a true story about courage – from mum

When my youngest son was a child – all his friends got a part-time job cleaning caravans for a home and garden event. My son didn’t get a reply to his job application. So, he just turned up and started working for the event. When it came to getting paid they said, “you’re not on our books,” he replied “I’ve done the work so I need to get my wages.” He’s now a hugely successful entrepreneur. He walks around covered in paint. He’s got a big property portfolio and he is a compassionate landlord with pride. He has no attitude. He still lives a humble life. I have done some good in this world in that boy. Both my sons are true darlings. My eldest son is an interior designer – gardener – artist. He brightens the community. I am a very, very proud Mum! X

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by Tiffany Belle Harper

a true story about courage – from mum

When my youngest son was a child – all his friends got a part-time job cleaning caravans for a home and garden event. My son didn’t get a reply to his job application. So, he just turned up and started working for the event. When it came to getting paid they said, “you’re not on our books,” he replied “I’ve done the work so I need to get my wages.” He’s now a hugely successful entrepreneur. He walks around covered in paint. He’s got a big property portfolio and he is a compassionate landlord with pride. He has no attitude. He still lives a humble life. I have done some good in this world in that boy. Both my sons are true darlings. My eldest son is an interior designer – gardener – artist. He brightens the community. I am a very, very proud Mum! X

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by Tiffany Belle Harper

‘instagram trash and filmstars on ski-slopes’ by Tiffany Belle Harper

The comedic provocateur brings the wrong things to her doorstep. She’s no security – high on a hill – free … unlike he – in a cable car with his bodyguards. Fine. Time. Of no consequence. The perils of decadent living without due care for the welfare – of those less concerned – with too many layers – of chemicals – coated across the faces of porn-stars (a dangerous lot.) Almost like plastic – hiding the natural. Boudoir photography is a beautiful thing. She’s made women look like Goddesses with her lens and care for curves. The woman on the hill – not to thrill.

There’s a fine line between elegance and trash. Elegance has attitude – trash wants cash  …”fuck me honey. ” So get your baggage off her doorstep and jog on – long gone. If  she never sees your face again, it will be too soon. Her lens is pure, it sees love. Your Instagram page is a sordid lie – why try – actions speak louder than cell phones and plastic. TBH©

Gorgeous Photo via feature at >  Sortra (love boudoir when done with style.)

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by Tiffany Belle Harper